Just because we as single women aren’t men, doesn’t mean that we can’t raise our boys to become men. Great men, at that! We may not have the same anatomy, or really understand the fascination with sports and bugs and guts and gore, but that’s not what’s important, as boys become men. As long as we have the want, the will, the support system and our own core values set in stone, we can raise wonderful, mindful sons as single moms – even if dad is never around.
Being a single parent actually has its perks, especially when you consider some of the things, people and behaviors that could potentially be influencing your child if dad were around. As difficult as it might be to see it initially, things really are this way for a reason, and they can even be better this way.
Across the ages mothers have discovered that raising boys as opposed to girls is different. When we think of girls we think of frills, ruffles, pretty dolls, and pretty hair. Boys don’t want any of this stuff. They want to wear pants, play with trucks, compete in sports, and flex their masculinity. But raising a boy involves so much more than this.
What you will learn:
* Debunking the Myth: Single Parenthood is Not the Devil
* How Raising Boys is Different Than Raising Girls
* Helping Your Boy Grow: It Takes a Village
* Teach Him to be a Man but Don’t Let Him Be the Man
* How to Strengthen His Sense of Self
* Connecting With Your Son at a Deeper Level
* The Teenage Years
* When Dad is Not a Good Role Model
* How to Ruin it All
* How to Keep it All Together
It’s going to be work, and it’s likely more than you signed up for when you decided to have your son, but trust me, and trust all the other single mothers out there - it is worth it. It is rewarding - and you have to share that with no one. It’s all because of you. It’s a great responsibility, but with great responsibility comes great reward, remember that.